משנה: הָיוּ מְסָרְבִין בּוֹ לָשֵׂאת אֶת בַּת אֲחוֹתוֹ וְאָמַר קוֹנָם שֶׁהִיא נֶהֱנֵית לִי לְעוֹלָם וְכֵן הַמְגָרֵשׁ אֶת אִשְׁתּוֹ וְאָמַר קוֹנָם אִשְׁתִּי נֶהֱנֵית לִי לְעוֹלָם הֲרֵי אֵילּוּ מוּתָּרוֹת לֵיהָנוֹת לוֹ שֶׁלֹּא נִתְכַּוֵון זֶה אֶלָּא לְשֵׁם אִישּׁוּת.
MISHNAH: If they were importuning him to marry his sister’s daughter and he said, a qônām if she ever has any usufruct from me, and similarly, a man who was about to divorce his wife and said, a qônām if my wife ever has any usufruct from me, they may have usufruct from him since he intended only about matters of marriage.