משנה: הַשּׁוֹלֵחַ סִבְלוֹנוֹת לְבֵית חָמִיו שִׁילַּח שָׁם מֵאָה מְנָה וְאָכַל שָׁם סְעוּדַת חָתָן אֲפִילוּ בְדֵינַר אֵינָן נִיגְבִּין. לֹא אָכַל שָׁם סְעוּדַת חָתָן הֲרֵי אֵילּוּ נִיגְבִּין. שִׁילַּח סִיבְלוֹנוֹת מְרוּבִּין שֶׁיָּבוֹאוּ עִמָּהּ לְבֵית בַּעֲלָהּ הֲרֵי אֵילּוּ נִיגְבִּין. סִיבְלוֹנוֹת מְמוּעָטִין כְּדֵי שֶׁתִּשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בָּהֶן וְהִיא בְבֵית אָבִיהָ אֵינָן נִיגְבִּין.
MISHNAH: If somebody sent bridal gifts to his father-in-law’s house, if he sent there for 100 minas and ate there a marriage meal for at least a denar’s worth, they cannot be collected. If he did not eat there a marriage meal, they can be collected. If he sent large bridal gifts which she is expected to bring with her to her husband’s house, they can be collected. Small bridal gifts which she is supposed to use in her father’s house cannot be collected.