AN 4.200

Pemasutta

“Cattārimāni, bhikkhave, pemāni jāyanti. Katamāni cattāri? Pemā pemaṁ jāyati, pemā doso jāyati, dosā pemaṁ jāyati, dosā doso jāyati.

Fondness

“Mendicants, these four things are born. What four? Fondness is born of fondness, hate is born of fondness, fondness is born of hate, and hate is born of hate.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, pemā pemaṁ jāyati? Idha, bhikkhave, puggalo puggalassa iṭṭho hoti kanto manāpo. Taṁ pare iṭṭhena kantena manāpena samudācaranti. Tassa evaṁ hoti: ‘yo kho myāyaṁ puggalo iṭṭho kanto manāpo, taṁ pare iṭṭhena kantena manāpena samudācarantī’ti. So tesu pemaṁ janeti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, pemā pemaṁ jāyati.

And how is fondness born of fondness? It’s when someone likes, loves, and cares for an individual. Others treat them with liking, love, and care. They think: ‘These others like the individual I like.’ And so fondness for them springs up. That’s how fondness is born of fondness.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, pemā doso jāyati? Idha, bhikkhave, puggalo puggalassa iṭṭho hoti kanto manāpo. Taṁ pare aniṭṭhena akantena amanāpena samudācaranti. Tassa evaṁ hoti: ‘yo kho myāyaṁ puggalo iṭṭho kanto manāpo, taṁ pare aniṭṭhena akantena amanāpena samudācarantī’ti. So tesu dosaṁ janeti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, pemā doso jāyati.

And how is hate born of fondness? It’s when someone likes, loves, and cares for an individual. Others treat them with disliking, loathing, and detestation. They think: ‘These others dislike the individual I like.’ And so hate for them springs up. That’s how hate is born of fondness.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, dosā pemaṁ jāyati? Idha, bhikkhave, puggalo puggalassa aniṭṭho hoti akanto amanāpo. Taṁ pare aniṭṭhena akantena amanāpena samudācaranti. Tassa evaṁ hoti: ‘yo kho myāyaṁ puggalo aniṭṭho akanto amanāpo, taṁ pare aniṭṭhena akantena amanāpena samudācarantī’ti. So tesu pemaṁ janeti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, dosā pemaṁ jāyati.

And how is fondness born of hate? It’s when someone dislikes, loathes, and detests an individual. Others treat them with disliking, loathing, and detestation. They think: ‘These others dislike the individual I dislike.’ And so fondness for them springs up. That’s how fondness is born of hate.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, dosā doso jāyati? Idha, bhikkhave, puggalo puggalassa aniṭṭho hoti akanto amanāpo. Taṁ pare iṭṭhena kantena manāpena samudācaranti. Tassa evaṁ hoti: ‘yo kho myāyaṁ puggalo aniṭṭho akanto amanāpo, taṁ pare iṭṭhena kantena manāpena samudācarantī’ti. So tesu dosaṁ janeti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, dosā doso jāyati. Imāni kho, bhikkhave, cattāri pemāni jāyanti.

And how is hate born of hate? It’s when someone dislikes, loathes, and detests an individual. Others treat them with liking, love, and care. They think: ‘These others like the individual I dislike.’ And so hate for them springs up. That’s how hate is born of hate. These are the four things that are born.

Yasmiṁ, bhikkhave, samaye bhikkhu vivicceva kāmehi …pe… paṭhamaṁ jhānaṁ upasampajja viharati, yampissa pemā pemaṁ jāyati tampissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti, yopissa pemā doso jāyati sopissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti, yampissa dosā pemaṁ jāyati tampissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti, yopissa dosā doso jāyati sopissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti.

A time comes when a mendicant … enters and remains in the first absorption. At that time they have no fondness born of fondness, hate born of fondness, fondness born of hate, or hate born of hate.

Yasmiṁ, bhikkhave, samaye bhikkhu vitakkavicārānaṁ vūpasamā …pe… dutiyaṁ jhānaṁ …pe… tatiyaṁ jhānaṁ …pe… catutthaṁ jhānaṁ upasampajja viharati, yampissa pemā pemaṁ jāyati tampissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti, yopissa pemā doso jāyati sopissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti, yampissa dosā pemaṁ jāyati tampissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti, yopissa dosā doso jāyati sopissa tasmiṁ samaye na hoti.

A time comes when a mendicant … enters and remains in the second absorption … third absorption … fourth absorption. At that time they have no fondness born of fondness, hate born of fondness, fondness born of hate, or hate born of hate.

Yasmiṁ, bhikkhave, samaye bhikkhu āsavānaṁ khayā anāsavaṁ cetovimuttiṁ paññāvimuttiṁ diṭṭheva dhamme sayaṁ abhiññā sacchikatvā upasampajja viharati, yampissa pemā pemaṁ jāyati tampissa pahīnaṁ hoti ucchinnamūlaṁ tālāvatthukataṁ anabhāvaṅkataṁ āyatiṁ anuppādadhammaṁ, yopissa pemā doso jāyati sopissa pahīno hoti ucchinnamūlo tālāvatthukato anabhāvaṅkato āyatiṁ anuppādadhammo, yampissa dosā pemaṁ jāyati tampissa pahīnaṁ hoti ucchinnamūlaṁ tālāvatthukataṁ anabhāvaṅkataṁ āyatiṁ anuppādadhammaṁ, yopissa dosā doso jāyati sopissa pahīno hoti ucchinnamūlo tālāvatthukato anabhāvaṅkato āyatiṁ anuppādadhammo. Ayaṁ vuccati, bhikkhave, bhikkhu neva usseneti na paṭiseneti na dhūpāyati na pajjalati na sampajjhāyati.

A time comes when a mendicant realizes the undefiled freedom of heart and freedom by wisdom. And they live having realized it with their own insight in this very life due to the ending of defilements. At that time any fondness born of fondness, hate born of fondness, fondness born of hate, or hate born of hate is given up, cut off at the root, made like a palm stump, obliterated, and unable to arise in the future. This is called a mendicant who doesn’t draw close or push back or fume or ignite or burn up.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu usseneti? Idha, bhikkhave, bhikkhu rūpaṁ attato samanupassati, rūpavantaṁ vā attānaṁ, attani vā rūpaṁ, rūpasmiṁ vā attānaṁ; vedanaṁ attato samanupassati, vedanāvantaṁ vā attānaṁ, attani vā vedanaṁ, vedanāya vā attānaṁ; saññaṁ attato samanupassati, saññāvantaṁ vā attānaṁ, attani vā saññaṁ, saññāya vā attānaṁ; saṅkhāre attato samanupassati, saṅkhāravantaṁ vā attānaṁ, attani vā saṅkhāre, saṅkhāresu vā attānaṁ; viññāṇaṁ attato samanupassati, viññāṇavantaṁ vā attānaṁ, attani vā viññāṇaṁ, viññāṇasmiṁ vā attānaṁ. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu usseneti.

And how does a mendicant draw close? It’s when a mendicant regards form as self, self as having form, form in self, or self in form. They regard feeling as self, self as having feeling, feeling in self, or self in feeling. They regard perception as self, self as having perception, perception in self, or self in perception. They regard choices as self, self as having choices, choices in self, or self in choices. They regard consciousness as self, self as having consciousness, consciousness in self, or self in consciousness. That’s how a mendicant draws close.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na usseneti? Idha, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na rūpaṁ attato samanupassati, na rūpavantaṁ vā attānaṁ, na attani vā rūpaṁ, na rūpasmiṁ vā attānaṁ; na vedanaṁ attato samanupassati, na vedanāvantaṁ vā attānaṁ, na attani vā vedanaṁ, na vedanāya vā attānaṁ; na saññaṁ attato samanupassati, na saññāvantaṁ vā attānaṁ, na attani vā saññaṁ, na saññāya vā attānaṁ; na saṅkhāre attato samanupassati, na saṅkhāravantaṁ vā attānaṁ, na attani vā saṅkhāre, na saṅkhāresu vā attānaṁ; na viññāṇaṁ attato samanupassati, na viññāṇavantaṁ vā attānaṁ, na attani vā viññāṇaṁ, na viññāṇasmiṁ vā attānaṁ. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na usseneti.

And how does a mendicant not draw close? It’s when a mendicant doesn’t regard form as self, self as having form, form in self, or self in form. They don’t regard feeling as self, self as having feeling, feeling in self, or self in feeling. They don’t regard perception as self, self as having perception, perception in self, or self in perception. They don’t regard choices as self, self as having choices, choices in self, or self in choices. They don’t regard consciousness as self, self as having consciousness, consciousness in self, or self in consciousness. That’s how a mendicant doesn’t draw close.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu paṭiseneti? Idha, bhikkhave, bhikkhu akkosantaṁ paccakkosati, rosantaṁ paṭirosati, bhaṇḍantaṁ paṭibhaṇḍati. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu paṭiseneti.

And how does a mendicant push back? It’s when someone abuses, annoys, or argues with a mendicant, and the mendicant abuses, annoys, or argues back at them. That’s how a mendicant pushes back.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na paṭiseneti? Idha, bhikkhave, bhikkhu akkosantaṁ na paccakkosati, rosantaṁ na paṭirosati, bhaṇḍantaṁ na paṭibhaṇḍati. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na paṭiseneti.

And how does a mendicant not push back? It’s when someone abuses, annoys, or argues with a mendicant, and the mendicant doesn’t abuse, annoy, or argue back at them. That’s how a mendicant doesn’t push back.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu dhūpāyati? Asmīti, bhikkhave, sati itthasmīti hoti, evaṁsmīti hoti, aññathāsmīti hoti, asasmīti hoti, satasmīti hoti, santi hoti, itthaṁ santi hoti, evaṁ santi hoti, aññathā santi hoti, apihaṁ santi hoti, apihaṁ itthaṁ santi hoti, apihaṁ evaṁ santi hoti, apihaṁ aññathā santi hoti, bhavissanti hoti, itthaṁ bhavissanti hoti, evaṁ bhavissanti hoti, aññathā bhavissanti hoti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu dhūpāyati.

And how does a mendicant fume? When there is the concept ‘I am’, there are the concepts ‘I am such’, ‘I am thus’, ‘I am otherwise’; ‘I am fleeting’, ‘I am lasting’; ‘mine’, ‘such is mine’, ‘thus is mine’, ‘otherwise is mine’; ‘also mine’, ‘such is also mine’, ‘thus is also mine’, ‘otherwise is also mine’; ‘I will be’, ‘I will be such’, ‘I will be thus’, ‘I will be otherwise’. That’s how a mendicant fumes.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na dhūpāyati? Asmīti, bhikkhave, asati itthasmīti na hoti, evaṁsmīti na hoti, aññathāsmīti na hoti, asasmīti na hoti, satasmīti na hoti, santi na hoti, itthaṁ santi na hoti, evaṁ santi na hoti, aññathā santi na hoti, apihaṁ santi na hoti, apihaṁ itthaṁ santi na hoti, apihaṁ evaṁ santi na hoti, apihaṁ aññathā santi na hoti, bhavissanti na hoti, itthaṁ bhavissanti na hoti, evaṁ bhavissanti na hoti, aññathā bhavissanti na hoti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na dhūpāyati.

And how does a mendicant not fume? When there is no concept ‘I am’, there are no concepts ‘I am such’, ‘I am thus’, ‘I am otherwise’; ‘I am fleeting’, ‘I am lasting’; ‘mine’, ‘such is mine’, ‘thus is mine’, ‘otherwise is mine’; ‘also mine’, ‘such is also mine’, ‘thus is also mine’, ‘otherwise is also mine’; ‘I will be’, ‘I will be such’, ‘I will be thus’, ‘I will be otherwise’. That’s how a mendicant doesn’t fume.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu pajjalati? Iminā asmīti, bhikkhave, sati iminā itthasmīti hoti, iminā evaṁsmīti hoti, iminā aññathāsmīti hoti, iminā asasmīti hoti, iminā satasmīti hoti, iminā santi hoti, iminā itthaṁ santi hoti, iminā evaṁ santi hoti, iminā aññathā santi hoti, iminā apihaṁ santi hoti, iminā apihaṁ itthaṁ santi hoti, iminā apihaṁ evaṁ santi hoti, iminā apihaṁ aññathā santi hoti, iminā bhavissanti hoti, iminā itthaṁ bhavissanti hoti, iminā evaṁ bhavissanti hoti, iminā aññathā bhavissanti hoti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu pajjalati.

And how is a mendicant ignited? When there is the concept ‘I am because of this’, there are the concepts ‘I am such because of this’, ‘I am thus because of this’, ‘I am otherwise because of this’; ‘I am fleeting because of this’, ‘I am lasting because of this’; ‘mine because of this’, ‘such is mine because of this’, ‘thus is mine because of this’, ‘otherwise is mine because of this’; ‘also mine because of this’, ‘such is also mine because of this’, ‘thus is also mine because of this’, ‘otherwise is also mine because of this’; ‘I will be because of this’, ‘I will be such because of this’, ‘I will be thus because of this’, ‘I will be otherwise because of this’. That’s how a mendicant is ignited.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na pajjalati? Iminā asmīti, bhikkhave, asati iminā itthasmīti na hoti, iminā evaṁsmīti na hoti, iminā aññathāsmīti na hoti, iminā asasmīti na hoti, iminā satasmīti na hoti, iminā santi na hoti, iminā itthaṁ santi na hoti, iminā evaṁ santi na hoti, iminā aññathā santi na hoti, iminā apihaṁ santi na hoti, iminā apihaṁ itthaṁ santi na hoti, iminā apihaṁ evaṁ santi na hoti, iminā apihaṁ aññathā santi na hoti, iminā bhavissanti na hoti, iminā itthaṁ bhavissanti na hoti, iminā evaṁ bhavissanti na hoti, iminā aññathā bhavissanti na hoti. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na pajjalati.

And how is a mendicant not ignited? When there is no concept ‘I am because of this’, there are no concepts ‘I am such because of this’, ‘I am thus because of this’, ‘I am otherwise because of this’; ‘I am fleeting because of this’, ‘I am lasting because of this’; ‘mine because of this’, ‘such is mine because of this’, ‘thus is mine because of this’, ‘otherwise is mine because of this’; ‘also mine because of this’, ‘such is also mine because of this’, ‘thus is also mine because of this’, ‘otherwise is also mine because of this’; ‘I will be because of this’, ‘I will be such because of this’, ‘I will be thus because of this’, ‘I will be otherwise because of this’. That’s how a mendicant is not ignited.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu sampajjhāyati? Idha, bhikkhave, bhikkhuno asmimāno pahīno na hoti ucchinnamūlo tālāvatthukato anabhāvaṅkato āyatiṁ anuppādadhammo. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu sampajjhāyati.

And how does a mendicant burn up? It’s when a mendicant hasn’t given up the conceit ‘I am’, cut it off at the root, made it like a palm stump, obliterated it, so it’s unable to arise in the future. That’s how a mendicant is burned up.

Kathañca, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na sampajjhāyati? Idha, bhikkhave, bhikkhuno asmimāno pahīno hoti ucchinnamūlo tālāvatthukato anabhāvaṅkato āyatiṁ anuppādadhammo. Evaṁ kho, bhikkhave, bhikkhu na sampajjhāyatī”ti.

And how does a mendicant not burn up? It’s when a mendicant has given up the conceit ‘I am’, cut it off at the root, made it like a palm stump, obliterated it, so it’s unable to arise in the future. That’s how a mendicant is not burned up.”