55. Kulamaccharinīsikkhāpada
Tena samayena buddho bhagavā sāvatthiyaṁ viharati jetavane anāthapiṇḍikassa ārāme. Tena kho pana samayena aññatarā bhikkhunī sāvatthiyaṁ aññatarissā visikhāya piṇḍāya caramānā yena aññataraṁ kulaṁ tenupasaṅkami; upasaṅkamitvā paññatte āsane nisīdi. Atha kho te manussā taṁ bhikkhuniṁ bhojetvā etadavocuṁ— “aññāpi, ayye, bhikkhuniyo āgacchantū”ti. Atha kho sā bhikkhunī— “kathañhi nāma bhikkhuniyo nāgaccheyyun”ti, bhikkhuniyo upasaṅkamitvā etadavoca— “amukasmiṁ, ayye, okāse vāḷā sunakhā caṇḍo balibaddo cikkhallo okāso. Mā kho tattha agamitthā”ti. Aññatarāpi bhikkhunī tassā visikhāya piṇḍāya caramānā yena taṁ kulaṁ tenupasaṅkami; upasaṅkamitvā paññatte āsane nisīdi. Atha kho te manussā taṁ bhikkhuniṁ bhojetvā etadavocuṁ— “kissa, ayye, bhikkhuniyo na āgacchantī”ti? Atha kho sā bhikkhunī tesaṁ manussānaṁ etamatthaṁ ārocesi. Manussā ujjhāyanti khiyyanti vipācenti— “kathañhi nāma bhikkhunī kulaṁ maccharāyissatī”ti …pe… “saccaṁ kira, bhikkhave, bhikkhunī kulaṁ maccharāyatī”ti? “Saccaṁ, bhagavā”ti. Vigarahi buddho bhagavā …pe… kathañhi nāma, bhikkhave, bhikkhunī kulaṁ maccharāyissati. Netaṁ, bhikkhave, appasannānaṁ vā pasādāya …pe… evañca pana, bhikkhave, bhikkhuniyo imaṁ sikkhāpadaṁ uddisantu—
Being stingy with families Origin story
At one time when the Buddha was staying at Sāvatthī in Anāthapiṇḍika’s Monastery, a certain nun there was walking for almsfood along a street. She then went to a certain family where she sat down on the prepared seat. The people there gave her a meal and said, “Venerable, other nuns may come too.” Then that nun thought, “What can I do so that other nuns don’t come?” And she went up to other nuns and said, “Venerables, in such-and-such a place there are malicious dogs, a fierce ox, and it’s muddy. Don’t go there.” Another nun, too, went to that family while walking for almsfood along that street. She sat down on the prepared seat and the people there gave her a meal. They then asked her, “Venerable, why don’t the nuns come here?” And she told them what had happened. People complained and criticized her, “How can a nun keep a family to herself?” … “Is it true, monks, that a nun acted like this?” “It’s true, sir.” The Buddha rebuked her … “How could a nun act like this? This will affect people’s confidence …” … “And, monks, the nuns should recite this training rule like this: