Hebrew · Midrash Rabbah (Hebrew, Torat Emet)וַתַּהַר וַתֵּלֶד בֵּן וַתֹּאמֶר אָסַף אֱלֹהִים אֶת חֶרְפָּתִי (בראשית ל, כג), אָמַר רַבִּי לֵוִי בַּר זְכַרְיָה עַד שֶׁלֹא תֵּלֵד הָאִשָּׁה הַסִּרְחוֹן נִתְלֶה בָהּ, לְאַחַר שֶׁתֵּלֵד תָּלוּי בִּבְנָהּ, מַאן אֲכַל הֲדָא מְקָמְתָא, בְּרָךְ. מַאן תְּבַר הֲדָא מְקָמְתָא, אֶלָּא בְּרָךְ. אָסַף אֱלֹהִים אֶת חֶרְפָּתִי, בְּפִלֶּגֶשׁ בַּגִּבְעָה (שופטים כא, יח): אָרוּר נֹתֵן אִשָּׁה לְבִנְיָמִן. אָסַף אֱלֹהִים אֶת חֶרְפָּתִי, בִּימֵי יָרָבְעָם (דברי הימים ב יג, כ): וְלֹא עָצַר כֹּחַ יָרָבְעָם עוֹד בִּימֵי אֲבִיָּהוּ וַיִּגְפֵהוּ ה' וַיָּמֹת. אָמַר רַבִּי שְׁמוּאֵל בַּר נַחְמָן, אַתְּ סָבוּר יָרָבְעָם הוּא שֶׁנִּגּוֹף, לֹא נִגּוֹף אֶלָּא אֲבִיָּה, וְלָמָּה נִגּוֹף, רַבִּי אַבָּא בַּר כַּהֲנָא אָמַר עַל שֶׁהֶעֱבִיר הַכָּרַת פְּנֵיהֶם שֶׁל יִשְׂרָאֵל, דִּכְתִיב (ישעיה ג, ט): הַכָּרַת פְּנֵיהֶם עָנְתָה בָּם. רַבִּי לֵוִי אָמַר שֶׁהוֹשִׁיב עֲלֵיהֶם שׁוֹמְרִים שְׁלשָׁה יָמִים עַד שֶׁנִּשְׁתַּנָּה צוּרָתָן, דִּתְנַן אֵין מְעִידִין אֶלָּא עַל פַּרְצוּף פָּנִים עִם הַחֹטֶם, וְאַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיֵּשׁ סִימָנִים בְּגוּפוֹ וּבְכֵלָיו, וְאֵין מְעִידִים אֶלָּא עַד ג' יָמִים. רַבִּי יוֹחָנָן אָמַר עַל שֶׁחִסְּדָם בָּרַבִּים, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברי הימים ב יג, ח): וְעַתָּה אַתֶּם אֹמְרִים לְהִתְחַזֵּק לִפְנֵי מַמְלֶכֶת ה' וגו' וְעִמָּכֶם עֶגְלֵי זָהָב אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה לָכֶם יָרָבְעָם לֵאלֹהִים. רֵישׁ לָקִישׁ אָמַר עַל שֶׁבִּזָּה לַאֲחִיָּה הַשִּׁילוֹנִי, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברי הימים ב יג, ז): וַיִּקָּבְצוּ עָלָיו אֲנָשִׁים רֵקִים בְּנֵי בְלִיַּעַל, קָרָא לַאֲחִיָּה הַשִּׁילוֹנִי בְּלִיַּעַל. רַבָּנָן אָמְרִין עַל שֶׁבָּא עֲבוֹדַת כּוֹכָבִים לְתוֹךְ יָדוֹ וְלֹא בִּעֲרָהּ, הֲדָא הוּא דִכְתִיב (דברי הימים ב יג, יט): וַיִּלְכֹּד מִמֶּנּוּ עָרִים אֶת בֵּית אֵל וְאֶת בְּנוֹתֶיהָ, וּכְתִיב (מלכים א יב, כט): וַיָּשֶׂם אֶת הָאֶחָד בְּבֵית אֵל וגו', וַהֲלוֹא דְּבָרִים קַל וָחֹמֶר וּמָה אִם הַמֶּלֶךְ שֶׁהוֹנָה אֶת הַמֶּלֶךְ כָּמוֹהוּ נִגַּף, הֶדְיוֹט שֶׁהוּא מוֹנֶה אֶת הֶדְיוֹט עַל אַחַת כַּמָּה וְכַמָּה.
English · The Sefaria Midrash Rabbah (2022)“She conceived, and bore a son, and said: God has removed my disgrace” (Genesis 30:23).
“She conceived, and bore a son, and said: God has removed my disgrace” – Rabbi Levi bar Zechariah said: Until the woman bears a child, the sin is attributed to her, after she bears a child; it is attributed to her child. Who ate this item? It is your son. Who broke this item? It is only your son.
“God has removed my disgrace” – in the incident of the concubine in Giva, “cursed is one who gives a wife to Benjamin” (Judges 21:18).
“God has removed my disgrace” – “Yerovam did not gain strength again in the days of Aviya; and the Lord afflicted him, and he died” (II Chronicles 13:20). Rabbi Shmuel bar Naḥman said: Do you think that it was Yerovam who was afflicted? It was no one other than Aviya who was afflicted. Why was he afflicted? Rabbi Abba bar Kahana said: It is because he mutilated the identifying features of Israel’s faces, as it is written: “The expression of their faces testifies against them” (Isaiah 3:9). Rabbi Levi said: Because he positioned guards over them for three days until their form decayed, as we learned: One may testify only about the countenance of the face with the nose, even if there are distinguishing marks on his body and his belongings…and one may testify only up to three days. Rabbi Yoḥanan said: It is because he humiliated them publicly, as it is stated: “Now you presume to withstand the kingdom of the Lord…and with you are the golden calves that Yerovam made for you for gods” (II Chronicles 13:8). Reish Lakish said: Because he denigrated Aḥiya the Shilonite, as it is stated: “Idle and wicked men gathered around him” (II Chronicles 13:7) – he called Aḥiya the Shilonite wicked. The Rabbis said: It is because idol worship came into his possession and he did not nullify it, as it is stated: “And captured cities from him: Beit El and its environs” (II Chronicles 13:19), and it is written: “He placed one [golden calf] in Beit El…” (I Kings 12:29). The matters can be derived a fortiori: If a king, because he mistreated a king like him, was afflicted, a commoner who mistreats a commoner, all the more so.