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Avot DeRabbi Natan

Avot D'Rabbi Natan 7

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English · David Kasher

Yosef ben Yohanan, a man of Jerusalem, would say: Let your house be open to all, let the poor be members of your household, and do not talk too much with married women. Let your house be open to all. How so? This teaches that a person’s house should be open to all sides: the south, the east, the west, and the north. This is like Job, who made four doors to his house. And why did Job make four doors to his house? So that the poor would not have to trouble themselves to go around the whole house. Someone who came in from the north would enter from that direction, and someone who came in from the south would enter from that direction, and so with every direction. That is why Job made four doors to his house. Let the poor be members of your household. Not that they will be actual members of your household, but they will speak of what they ate and drank in your house, in the way that they speak of what they ate and drank in the house of Job. For when they would meet, one would say to another: Where are you coming from? (And the other would reply:) From the house of Job; and where are you going? (And the first one would say:) To the house of Job. So when all the great tragedies came upon him, Job said before the Holy Blessed One: Did I not feed the hungry and give drink to the thirsty? as it says (Job 31:17), “Did I ever eat my food alone, and not let orphan eat from it?” And did I not clothe the naked? as it says (Job 31:20), “He warmed himself from the shearings of my sheep.” And even so, these tragedies came upon me. The Holy Blessed One said to Job: Job, you still have not gotten to [even half] the level of Abraham. You sit and wait in your house, and guests come in to you. And if it is someone’s custom is to eat wheat bread, you feed him wheat bread. And if someone’s custom is to eat meat, you feed him meat. And if someone’s custom is to drink wine, you pour him wine. But Abraham did not do this. Rather, he sat and looked out at the world, and when he would see potential guests, he would go bring them into his house. And if someone was not accustomed to eating wheat bread, he would feed him wheat bread. And if someone was not accustomed to eating meat, he would feed him meat. And if someone was not accustomed to drinking wine, he would pour him wine. Not only that, but he built large booths out on the roads, where he would leave food and drink, and anyone who came by and entered would eat and drink and bless the heavens, and he would feel content. Anything that one could ask for was available in the house of Abraham, as it says (Genesis 21:33), “And he planted an Eshel tree in Beer Sheba.”

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English · David Kasher

Teach the members of your household humility. When a person is humble and the members of his household are humble, then when a poor person comes to the door of his house and asks: Is your father home? they will say: Yes, come in. And before he even enters, a table will be [set] before him, and he can go right in and eat, and drink, and bless in the name of Heaven, and feel a great sense of contentment. But when a person is humble but the members of his household are unkind, then when a poor person comes to his door and asks: Is your father home? they will say to him: No, and scold him harshly, and drive him out. Another interpretation of “Teach the members of your household humility”: How so? When a person is humble and the members of his household are humble, then when he travels to faraway country, he says: I am grateful to you, the Eternal, my God, that my wife is not making trouble with others, and his heart is not anxious, and his mind is settled. But when a person is not humble and the members of his household are unkind, then when he travels to a faraway country, he says: May it be your will, the Eternal, my God, that my wife not make trouble with others and that my children not start fights, and his heart is anxious and his mind is not settled until he returns. And do not talk too much with married women. That is, even with his own wife, not to mention with his friend’s wife. For when a person talks too much with married women, he brings evil upon himself, neglects the words of Torah, and in the end will be doomed to Gehenna.

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English · David Kasher

(Another interpretation of) Do not talk too much with married women: How so? When a person comes to the study hall and they do not treat him with respect, or he has a fight with his friend, he should not go and tell his wife: I fought about this and that with my friend, and he said this and that to me, and then I said this and that to him. For in doing so, he disgraces himself (and disgraces his wife) and disgraces his friend. And his wife, who had treated him with respect, will now begin to ridicule him. And when his friend hears, he will say: Oy! Those things were between him and me, and he went and told them to his wife. So it is that this man has disgraced himself, and his wife, and his friend.

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