English · Shraga Silverstein2) How so? If he were a penitent, he should not be told "Remember what your former deeds were like." If he was the descendent of proselytes, he should not be told "Remember what the deeds of your ancestors were like." If he were beset with illnesses or afflictions or buried his children, he should not be told, as Iyyov was told by his friends (Iyyov 4:6-7) "Is not your piety your foolishness — your hope and the innocence of your ways? Remember, now, which innocent man ever went lost, and where have the upright been destroyed?" If one saw ass drivers seeking grain or wine, he should not tell them "Go to so and so," knowing that he never sold grain in his life. R. Yehudah says: He should also not eye merchandise and ask (the seller) what the price is when he has no intention of buying. And if you would say: "I am giving him good advice, such things are relegated to the heart, and concerning this it is written "and you shall fear your G d" — Whatever is relegated to the heart, of such things it is written "and you shall fear your G-d" (who probes the heart).